I'm not particularly religious, or even remotely religious at all to be honest, but I do wonder why people do the things they do. Why do people feel the need to bury their dead? Probably just to get them out of the way in the beginning, but that must have evolved into something more, as we see the emergence of early funerary practices at least 130,000 years ago.
Why do people practice the death practices that they do? What encouraged people to embalm and preserve their dead (Ancient Egyptians)? Or to cremate them today?
The always debated topic of displaying the dead, such as in museums and ossuaries is a bit of a touchy subject. Who gets to decide which dead are displayed? and where? and to whom? This problem arises often in archaeology in BC, with the remains of First Nations groups discovered during construction or other such work that disturbs the ground. According to First Nations practice, you cannot disturb the remains of the dead, or their spirits will remain disturbed and come back to "haunt" the living. So if remains are uncovered at a construction site, what happens to them? If they cant be re-buried, or if it is too late to re-bury them, what can be done? Who should be in charge of deciding these questions?
On the topic of displacement of remains, I find ossuaries quite fascinating. Many people know of the enormous one located in Paris; the Catacombs from the 18th Century. But I found another interesting one; Not quite as large as that of Paris, but definitely more interesting, to me at least. In Halstatt, Austria, there is a large ossuary, with all the remains proudly displayed. Now, this is no ordinary ossuary, the remains here have been painted.
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As mentioned above, I am not a religious person. I don't believe that there is anything after dead; I see it as the natural course of things, we are born, we live, then we die, and that is all - no reincarnation, no heaven. But even I cant deny that there is something meaningful or symbolic about leaving flowers on grave sites, or revisiting the place that a relatives ashes have been scattered. I think people do those things for themselves, not for the relatives, even if it is subconsciously. I don't think most people would like to admit or to accept that there is nothing after death, that once their loved-one has passed on, they will be gone forever. So, by leaving things on a grave, or visiting grave sites, it gives the feeling of being close to that person again. If that is your personal inclination, or if that is what you need to do to cope with the loss, then by all means flower-away. Not to be pessimistic at all, but I would rather people not do so for me. I believe that everyone has the right to choose their own religion, death practice, and funerary rituals (including flower placing), and as much as I don't understand why they do so, I do respect their right to continue on.




